SASKATCHEWAN FEDERATION OF POLICE OFFICERS SFPO’s $5000 donation to the Provincial Association of Transition Houses and Services of Saskatchewan 2nd Annual Copper Cup Pond Hockey Tournament Police & Peace Officers Eleventh Annual Saskatchewan Memorial FAMILY VIOLENCE AWA R E N E S S 2014
Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 1 PREM I ER OF SASKATCHEWAN LEGISLATIVE BUILDING REGINA, CANADA S4S 0B3 2014 Crime Prevention Guide On behalf of the Government of Saskatchewan, I am pleased to support the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers’ (SFPO) Annual Crime Prevention Guide. Since being founded in 1962, the SPFO has served as a collective voice for Saskatchewan municipal police agencies and civilian personnel. This annual guide serves to educate the public of the importance of crime prevention and law enforcement. This year’s guide addresses the public’s role in identifying and reporting potential child and spousal abuse. Healthy children and families are the foundation of a strong and vibrant Saskatchewan. This guide will be an important resource to help educate the public on this difficult subject. Commendably, all proceeds raised from this publication go directly to support improvements in law enforcement in our province, pay for annual police memorials, and support community organizations including Kids Helps Phone. I wish to express my sincere appreciation to the SFPO for your valuable work. Brad Wall Premier
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 3 What is Family Violence?. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 How to Recognize if You or Your Children are Being Abused . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31 What to Do if Someone You Know is Being Abused. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33 Men Abused by Women . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 The Economic Burden of Family Violence . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 41 Snapshot of Family Violence in Canada. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 How Big is the Problem in Canada . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45 Who Can Help . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49 How to Plan for Your Safety. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 How Men and Boys Can Help Stop Family Violence . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 59 What’s Wrong with Spanking. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61 Get Help with Family Violence . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 65 Domestic Violence – Fact and Fiction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 67 A Day in the Life of Canada’s Shelters for Women Survivors of Abuse . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71 Post-Separation Abuse: Impact on Women . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 79 Family Violence in Canada – a statistical profile . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 83 Victim Services in Canada – Provincial and Territorial Fact Sheets . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 89 Clients Served by Victim Service Providers. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 97 Children Exposed to Domestic Violence . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 101 Violence Against Aboriginal Women . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 103 What About the Children if You Decide to Leave? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107 Impact on Children . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 111 Same Sex Relationships . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 115 Saskatchewan Women and Domestic Violence . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 117 Origins of Violence – Strategies for Change . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119 Abuse Help Lines . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123 Family Violence Outreach . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 129 Legal Aid Offices. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131 RESOURCES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 144 ADVERTISERS’ INDEX. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 141 6TH Annual Crime Prevention Guide TABLE OF CONTENTS FAMILY VIOLENCE AWARENESS Message from the Premier. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 Message from the SFPO President . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 Publisher’s Page . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 SFPO’s $5,000 donation to Provincial Assn of Transition Houses and Services of Saskatchewan . 9 Police & Peace Officers Eleventh Annual Saskatchewan Memorial . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Regina Police Service Toy Drive Program . . . . . 15 Moose Jaw Police Association vs Special Olympics . 15 SK’s first and only Bicycle Skills Park . . . . . . . . 17 Estevan Police Association . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 2nd Annual Copper Cup Pond Hockey Tournament . 21 Saskatchewan Police College . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 Saskatchewan Police Delegates. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 Saskatchewan Police Officer Wellness Conference . . 25
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 5 As President of the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers, I am proud to introduce our Annual Crime Prevention Guide. This year’s Guide focuses on the topic of Family Violence Awareness. Our dedicated members of the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers work hard to combat Family Violence and continue to build partnerships throughout the province to achieve a common goal. Family Violence can affect us all. On behalf of the 1300 men and women representing the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers, I encourage you to read through this year’s Guide. Thanks to all the contributions and support by many individuals, businesses and organizations throughout the province who make this publication possible through your generous donations. Thank you for continuing to work together to build safe Saskatchewan Communities. Sincerely Casey Ward President Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers The Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers represents over 1,300 police personnel from six municipalities in Saskatchewan: Regina, Saskatoon, Prince Albert, Moose Jaw, Weyburn and Estevan. The SFPO is comprised of 8 police associations from each of those cities including senior officer associations in Regina and Saskatoon.
6 Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers Valerie Crossman Administrator RM of Coalfields No. 4 Box 190, Bienfait, SK S0C 0M0 Phone: (306) 388-2723 Cell: (305) 421-5927 Fax: (306) 388-2330 [email protected] Together, it’s our job to protect ourselves and our loved ones! Community minded citizens are always looking out for others. RM of Coalfields No.4 is proud to support the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers in their efforts to bring awareness on Family Violence. Our reputation for excellence in providing conscientious, professional tele-services campaign management reflects the skills and experience of a dedicated team of professionals. The on-going successful presentation of unique Family Entertainment Special Events, and the publication of highly-acclaimed Community Awareness Guides will continue to raise the public profiles of our many valued clients and generate essential funding for their operations. Professional Tele-Services Management 1 • 800 • 561 • 4422 Fenety Marketing is dedicated to assisting high-profile, non-profit organizations with professional marketing and fundraising services.
Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 7 From the Publisher “Providing quality, professional marketing and fundraising services on behalf of high-profile, non-profit organizations.” www.fenety.com The Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers publishes an Annual Crime Prevention Guide to educate the public on serious community concerns. This 6thAnnual Crime Prevention Guide focuses on the subject of Family Violence Awareness and is designed to help educate and promote the public’s role in identifying and reporting potential Child and Spousal Abuse, which is a serious concern for all Saskatchewanians! This Guide is made possible as a result of financial contributions from residents and business representatives throughout the province whose generous support makes it possible for the members of the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers to give back to their communities through donations to various local charities and youth-oriented programs. On behalf of SFPO, I would like to take this opportunity to sincerely thank each and every contributor of our 2014 Telephone Appeal. This unique publication is distributed free-of-charge each year to schools, libraries and public facilities and it is also available online at SFPO’s website at www.saskpolice.com, making it easily accessible to everyone. Your comments or suggestions regarding these publications are always welcome and we look forward to speaking with you again this year during our Annual Telephone Appeal. Respectfully, Mark T. Fenety President Fenety Marketing Services
8 Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers International Union of Operating Engineers 2175 Airport Drive Saskatoon, Saskatchewan S7L 7E1 Telephone: (306) 665-7718 Facsimile: (306) 665-0998 2518 Faithfull Ave, Unit 106 Saskatoon, SK S7K 6R3 Ph: (306) 649-FUEL (3835) Crisis Line (306) 933-6200 • Suicide Intervention • Marriage & Family Problems • Drug and Alcohol Abuse • Individual Crisis Counselling • Child Abuse and Neglect • Mental Health Crisis Intervention • Problem Gambling • Seniors in Distress Telephone Counselling (24hrs/7days/365) 103-506 25th Street East Saskatoon, SK S7K 4A7 www.SaskatoonCrisis.ca
Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 9 • Regina Transition House (306) 569-2292 • Isabel Johnson Shelter, Regina - (306) 525-2141 • Wichihik Iskwewak Safe House (WISH) Regina - (306) 543-0493 • Moose Jaw Transition House - (306) 693-6511 • Southwest Safe Shelter, Swift Current - (306) 778-3684 • Saskatoon Interval House - (306) 244-0185 • Shelwin House, Yorkton - (306) 783-7233 • Prince Albert Safe Shelter for Women - (306) 764-7233 • Piwapan Women's Centre, La Ronge - (306) 425-3900 • The Battlefords Interval House Society - (306) 445-2742 For further information, you may also contact: The Provincial Association of Transition Houses and Services of Saskatchewan (PATHS) 2505 11th Avenue, Suite 308 Regina, SK S4P 0K6 Phone: 306-522-3515 Email: [email protected] www.abusehelplines.org Proceeds from our Annual Community Guide project have allowed the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers to make a $5,000 donation to the Provincial Association of Transition Houses and Services of Saskatchewan. From left to right: Vice Presidents Tony Boensch and Taylor Mickleborough, PATHS Provincial Coordinator Jo-Anne Dusel and SFPO President Casey Ward. The following women's shelters are funded to provide emergency accommodation and support for women and their children.
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 11 Police & Peace Officers Eleventh Annual Saskatchewan Memorial Sunday, September 28, 2014 – Legislative Building, Regina, SK The Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers is continually advancing issues of safety for our members and all police and peace officers in the province. In doing so, we remember those who have walked our beats, driven our streets and given the ultimate sacrifice for our communities. The members whose names make up this Honour Roll are a constant reminder of the important and often dangerous situations which we are faced with daily in our communities. Unfortunately, this year we have had to add a new name to the Honour Roll, a further reminder of the sacrifice our members make all too often. ►
12 Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers #1 - 3401 8th St East, 614 Circle Drive East Ph: 956-3278 (8th) and 249-5823 (circle) www.lubestation.ca Please ask for your frequency card where every seventh oil change is free. Behind the big yellow doors. Draw twice a year for a trip for Loyal Customers completing frequency cards. Look for us on Facebook and Twitter RWDSU RETAIL. WHOLESALE DEPARTMENT STORE UNION Regina 1233 Winnipeg Street S4R 1K1 Phone: 306-569-9311 Fax: 306-569-9521 E-mail: [email protected] Toll Free: 1-877-747-9378 UNION MEMBERSHIP PAYS HIGH DIVIDENDS FOR A BETTER FUTURE - JOIN R.W.D.S.U. Fairness in the workplace Saskatoon 2154 Airport Drive S7L 6M6 Phone: 306-384-9885 Fax: 306-384-1006 E-mail: [email protected] Toll Free: 1-877-717-9378 Ochapowace Nation P.O. Box 550, Whitewood Saskatchewan, S0G 5C0 Chief & Council Office Phone (306) 696-3160; Fax (306) 696-3146 Administration & Finance Phone (306) 696-2425; Fax (306) 696-2426 Housing & Public Works Phone (306) 696-2655; Fax (306) 696-3340 Human Services (Health) Phone (306) 696-3557; Fax (306) 696-3446 Lands, Laws & Justice Phone (306) 696-3194; Fax (306) 696-2591 On behalf of Ochapowace, we want to encourage all people to strive for unity amongst themselves and with others. We believe our families are the cornerstone of our communities; we need to protect our families and especially our children. We must learn to live in peace, to treat all people with respect and with dignity for we are all made by the same Creator. ~ Chief and Council, Ochapowace Nation Ochapowace pow-wow, last weekend in July 115 Wall Street, #5 Saskatoon, SK S7K 6C2 (306) 955-0762 In support of the Municipal Police and working along side them. Such Things as: • Higher Wages • Fair Treatment • Job Security • Democratic Decision Making • Proper Scheduling • Better Health and Safety Procedures • Sick Leave • Proper Grievance Procedures • Family Dental Plan • Experienced Staff Working for You • Improved Vacation • Good Pension
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 15 On January 23, 2015, officers from the Regina Police Service, fronted by Cst. Desiree Mills, dropped off gently used toys to the North Central Family Centre. The trailer was completely full of toys, stuffed animals, cra$ supplies, books, strollers, etc. - thousands of toys were delivered to the Centre, where they were distributed to kids and families. It was a great initiative that the community embraced. THANK YOU to the dozens of individuals who donated. In 2014-2015, the Moose Jaw Police Association donated money to local charities and organizations including the “Better Together” Food Drive, Moose Jaw Minor Hockey, the Carnival Dance Competition, and the Flying Fins Swim Club. In April 2015, the MJPA again enjoyed a friendly game of floor hockey with the Special Olympics team. This is an annual event that both teams very much look forward to. This year’s game was very well attended and provided great entertainment. As in other years, the police team was easily outplayed and lost by a large score. In May 2015, the MJPA teamed up with the Special Olympics again for some curling. We had a great time and an awesome turnout. Regina Police Service Toy Drive Program The officers helped bring in the toys. Unloading the trailer. Moose Jaw Police Association vs Special Olympics
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 17 In June of 2015, construction began on Saskatchewan’s first and only Bicycle Skills Park. This is a unique and exciting way to leave a positive legacy in the community and promote vitality within youth. A$er two years of planning and organizing, construction began a$er raising over $75,000 for the project. The project was intended to get underway in 2014, but Mother Nature wouldn’t cooperate with the plans. The MJPA funded the design of the park, organized the project, supplied the necessary volunteer effort and engaged in fundraising to complete the project. Overall, the project has received overwhelming public support and positive feedback. To date, support and donations were received from Co-Op, Evans Excavating, the Associated Canadian Travelers, Simpson Seeds, Cypress Paving, the RM of Moose Jaw, the City of Moose Jaw, Folgizan Insurance, Wakamow Valley and the Moose Jaw Pavers. We are very pleased to say that this will be one of the best bike parks in Canada and a valuable asset to our community! Saskatchewan’s first and only Bicycle Skills Park
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 19 The Estevan Police Association held its Second Annual Family Christmas Party in December 2014, at the Estevan Family Resource Centre. The party included sleigh rides, potluck supper and a special visit from Santa Claus. Fun and laughter and a few tears were had by all. Estevan Police Association The Estevan Police Association, in conjunction with the Estevan Police Service, has been committed to continuing and improving relationships within our community. Several presentations have been completed to date by our School Resource Officer on Sexting, Internet Safety, Bullying, Bike Safety and Safety Patrol. Members have increased their presence by increasing their foot patrols through the local mall and downtown businesses.
20 Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers Flying Dust First Nation Administration and Health Services 8001 Flying Dust Reserve Meadow Lake, SK S9X 1T8 Phone: 306-236-4437 Fax: 306-236-3373 Web: www.flyingdust.net 104 - 1848 McOrmond Drive Saskatoon, SK S7S 0A5 306-955-2400 www.willowgreendental.com OPERATIVE PLASTERERS & CEMENT MASONS Local Union 222 “The world suffers a lot, not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people!” #42, 4004-97 Street, Edmonton, AB T6E 6N1 Ph: (780) 423-4296 Fax: (780) 423-4271 www.Local222.com Calgary, AB (403) 258-0042 Saskatoon, SK (306) 244-6556 Winnipeg, MB 1-877-423-4296
Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 21 In February 2015, the Moose Jaw Police Association (MJPA) hosted the 2nd Annual Copper Cup Pond Hockey Tournament in Moose Jaw’s beautiful Wakamow Valley. The event was very successful and proved to be an excellent way for Police Officers to interact with the community and promote vitality, all while raising money for various local charities. The tournament was well attended despite the blizzard conditions on game day. Overall, over $5,000 was raised through team participation and prize raffles. All of the money raised will be donated back to the community of Moose Jaw through various local charities and community projects. 2ND Annual Copper Cup Pond Hockey Tournament
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 23 Saskatchewan Police College August 5 - December 19, 2014 Recruit Class #69 Saskatchewan Police Delegates Front Row (l-r) - Csts. Madison Pawliw, Carter Munday, Mathew Brown, Jordan Zubkow, Sean Jenkins, Cst. Laurie Alexander, Recruit Training Officer, Mitch Crumley, Acting Director, Csts. Brendan Funk, Vikto Hasani, Sam Kosolofski, Angela McEwen, Matthew Hart. Back Row (l-r) Csts. Erin Donnelly, Cole Janett, Ryan Palka, Adam Strube, Keaton Wlaz, Amol, Cheema, Graham McDonald, Sheldon Reddekopp, Arthur Rekshta, Greg Lee, Muhammad Khan, Stephanie Kepler. SFPO delegates in Ottawa with SK Senator Denise Batters.
24 Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 301-2553 Grasswood Road East Saskatoon Saskatchewan S7T 0K1 [email protected] www.desnedhe.com Ph: 306.374.9181 Fax: 306.374.9131
Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 25 October 29 & 30, 2015 Heritage Inn Hotel & Convention Centre, 1590 Main Street North, Moose Jaw, SK The Moose Jaw Police Association and The Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers is pleased to present a 2-day conference at the Heritage Inn Hotel & Convention Centre. The issues we face as a result of occupation related stress, fatigue and even poor nutrition can have a major impact on our lives and those of our family members. This conference will assist participants in both identifying some of the occupational related issues we face as Police Officers, as well as providing us with the resources and knowledge we need to remain healthy and safe while we continue to serve our communities. Guest speakers: Dr Kevin Gilmartin, Dr Bryan Vila, Dr John Violanti Motivational Speaker: Darci Lang To register, please send an email to [email protected] by October 10/15. Saskatchewan Police Officer Wellness Conference
26 Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers Canadian Tire 200 King Street Estavan, SK (306) 634-6408 Proud to support the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers Kinsmen Club of Saskatoon Serving the community’s greatest need www.kcos.ca Awareness Saves Lives! We need to recognize the signs and behaviors of children and adults that may be experiencing violence in their families, to help them to get treatment and to be secure in their homes. We support the efforts of the Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers in bringing awareness to this important social issue. Yorkton City Council Bob Maloney, Mayor
Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 27 Family violence is any form of abuse or neglect that a child or adult experiences from a family member, or from someone with whom they have an intimate relationship. It is an abuse of power by one person to hurt and control someone who trusts and depends on them. All family violence is wrong. Some of it is against the law. Many terms with similar meanings The different terms used for family violence can have slightly different meanings depending on where and how they are used, such as in a courtroom or a hospital. For example, domestic violence can sometimes mean family violence and sometimes it means intimate partner violence. Intimate partner violence refers to physical, sexual, or psychological harm by a current or former partner or spouse and can also be called dating violence between couples who are not married. The terms violence against womenand gender-based violenceare also used. Child abuse is sometimes called child maltreatment or neglect, and elder abuse is sometimes referred to as neglect. Family violence affects Canadians in all types of families and relationships-no matter how old they are, where they live, or how much money, education or type of job they have. It can affect people of every race, religion and sexual orientation. Violence can happen between anyone in a family or in a close intimate relationship (e.g., boyfriend, girlfriend or fiancée), including children, parents, grandparents, siblings, intimate partners and extended family—like uncles or step-parents. It can happen in opposite sex and same-sex couples. Examples of family violence: •child abuse, including neglect and childhood exposure to intimate partner violence •intimate partner violence, including dating violence •elder abuse and neglect •early and forced marriage, and "honour"- related violence •female genital mutilation Some common forms of family violence include: Physical abuse- physical injury or death of a family member or intimate partner caused when someone: •pushes, shoves, hits, slaps or kicks •pinches or punches •strangles or chokes •stabs or cuts •shoots •throws objects •burns •holds someone down for another person to assault •locks someone in a room or ties them down WHAT IS FAMILY VIOLENCE? Public Health Agency of Canada Agence de la santé publique du Canada å
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 29 Financial abuse—control, or misuse of a family member's or intimate partner's money or property, when someone: •takes another person's money or property without permission •prevents a person from going to work or otherwise obtaining money or other resources •withholds or limits money •pressures a person to sign documents •forces a person to sell things or change a will Neglect—not meeting the basic needs to provide care for a dependent family member or intimate partner, when someone: •does not provide proper food, warm clothing, health care, medication or appropriate hygiene •does not protect another person from physical harm or provide proper supervision •abandons another person Sexual abuse—forced sexual activity on a family member or intimate partner, when someone: •touches another in a sexual way without consent •has any sexual activity without consent •continues sexual activity when asked to stop •forces another to commit unsafe or humiliating sexual acts Sexual abuse can also happen in intimate partner relationships. Even if you are married or engaged, your partner cannot force you to have sex. Children under the age of 16 cannot give informed consent, so any sexual contact between an adult and a child is a crime. Children under the age of 18 cannot legally give consent to sexual activity that exploits them. Emotional or psycho-social abuse—words or actions to control or frighten a family member or intimate partner, or destroy their selfrespect, when someone: •makes threats •intimidates or bullies •puts down, insults or calls a person names •yells or criticizes all the time •isolates a person from friends and family •destroys belongings •hurts pets WHAT IS FAMILY VIOLENCE? ...continued www.phac-aspc.gc.ca
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 31 SOMETIMES it can be hard to tell whether or not you or your children are being abused. This information may help you to understand your own situation. All family violence is wrong. Some of it is against the law. Family violence is any form of abuse or neglect that a child or adult experiences from a family member or intimate partner (boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, fiancé(e). It is an abuse of power by one person to hurt and control someone who trusts and depends on them. Abuse can happen between anyone in a family, including young children, grown children, parents, elderly parents, siblings, intimate partners and extended family-like uncles or step-parents. It can happen in opposite and same-sex couples. Examples of violence include: Physical abuse - you or your children are •hit, kicked, burned, pushed, choked or punched. •threatened-someone threatens to hurt or kill you, your family or your pets. Sexual abuse - you are •forced to perform sexual activities of any kind. •made to have sex without contraception. •deliberately given a sexual disease or infection. Sexual abuse can also happen between intimate partners. Even if you are married or engaged, your partner cannot force you to have sex. Child sexual abuse - your children are taken advantage of for sexual purposes if they •touch someone's genitals. let someone touch their genitals. •have sex. •watch others have sex or look at porn. •take off their clothes or watch someone undress. •have nude photos taken. Emotional abuse-you or your children are •treated like a possession. •constantly criticized and put down. •told that you are stupid or worthless. • ignored or neglected, or given the silent treatment. •threatened-someone threatens to abandon you or leave you behind. Controlling behaviour - you or your children are •kept in your home and not allowed to leave. •constantly questioned and monitored — including your internet and phone activities. •not allowed to see your family or friends. Neglect - you or your children are •not being provided with your basic needs from someone you depend on. •denied needs such as housing, clothes, food, hygiene, supervision or medical care. Financial abuse - you are •not in control of your own or family money without your permission. •having money taken from you without your permission. •forced out of your house or forced to sign documents to give over control of your house. •not allowed to make an income. HOW TO RECOGNIZE IF YOU OR YOUR CHILDREN ARE BEING ABUSED Public Health Agency of Canada Agence de la santé publique du Canada www.phac-aspc.gc.ca
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 33 Is someone you know being abused? If you think that someone you know is being abused by a family member, it is important to act in a way that is safe and appropriate for everyone involved. Family violence is not a private matter You might be concerned about getting involved because you feel that family violence is a private matter and none of your business, but it's important to remember that someone's life may depend on it. Signs that someone may be a victim of abuse Pay attention if someone... •seems sad, withdrawn, afraid or otherwise acts like they may be a victim of abuse. •is unreasonably angry or aggressive. •is nervous when a particular family member is around. •makes excuses for a family member's behaviour. •is sick or misses school or work a lot, or takes paid or unpaid time off that seems related to an abusive situation. •has a change in job performance: poor concentration, mistakes, slowness, inconsistent work quality. •tries to cover bruises. •drinks more than usual or uses drugs. Or if you see... •"put downs" from one family member to another. •one family member doing all the talking or dominating the conversation when the other family member is present. •one family member trying to keep another family member away from her/his work or other activities. •one family member acting as if he/she "owns" another. •a family member contacting another while at work to say something that might scare or intimidate her/him. What you can do Family violence is never the victim's fault. The most important thing that you can do is offer your support without any blame or judgement... •Make sure everyone is safe- Choose a time and place where you can have a private conversation. Be careful about communication-a voice message, text or email could put someone in danger. Never confront an abuser or do anything that makes you feel unsafe. Get support for your own feelings from a friend or professional you trust. WHAT TO DO IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS BEING ABUSED Public Health Agency of Canada Agence de la santé publique du Canada å
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 35 WHAT TO DO IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS BEING ABUSED ...continued www.phac-aspc.gc.ca •Let the person be in charge - Listen respectfully to what this person needs; don't try to take over. Don't give details about why you're concerned; just say that you want to be supportive. If the person doesn't want to talk, say that you are available whenever needed. •Offer support - Before you approach the person, find services in your area that might help if and when they are ready: - Don't expect to know all the answers. - Explore options together. - Ask direct questions like, "Do you want me to help you find someone to talk to?" or "Do you want to go somewhere safe?" If a child or a young person tells you that they are being abused •Believe the child. •Listen. Don't interrupt or judge. •React calmly. Don't ask for details. •Tell the child that the abuse is not their fault, and that it was right to tell you. •Write down what the child tells you in their own words. What to do if you suspect child abuse: If you know a child is being sexually abused, report it to the police immediately. In an emergency, call 911. Every province and territory has a law that says that any person who believes a child is being abused must report it. You will not get in trouble for making a report if you have reason to believe a child is being abused, even if it turns out that you were wrong. If you have questions about how to recognize child abuse, here are some things you can do: •Call your local child protection services. •Talk to a nurse, social worker, doctor or teacher. •Call the police. •Call the Kids' Help Phone 1-800-668-6868.
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 37 Between 1999 and 2004, more than half a million men in Canada had a female partner who was violent toward them. The partner might have been a wife, an ex-wife or a common-law partner. This means about six per cent of men in intimate relationships have experienced abuse or violence from their partners.1 MENABUSED BYWOMEN So what is abuse? •Abuse in intimate relationships is a pattern of behaviours where one partner dominates, belittles or humiliates the other. •Abuse of men by their partners happens when the partner uses emotional, physical, sexual or intimidation tactics. She* does it to control the man, get her own way and prevent him from leaving the relationship. The abused man is always adapting his behaviour to do what his partner wants, in the hopes of preventing further abuse. •The primary motive for abuse is to establish and maintain power and control over a partner. The abused partner resists the attempts to control him. In turn, the abusive woman takes additional steps to regain control over her partner. •Abuse in intimate relationships is not typically an isolated incident. Abuse happens over time. If abuse is allowed to continue, it becomes more frequent and more severe. Control tactics: four kinds of abuse Often when people think about abuse, they think of emotional abuse, physical abuse, or sexual abuse. Abuse may also include intimidation tactics. EMOTIONAL ABUSE TACTICS include: •Putdowns •Controlling finances • Isolating her partner and restricting his freedoms •Spiritual abuse (ridicules or insults religion or spiritual beliefs) PHYSICAL ABUSE TACTICS include any activity that can cause physical pain or injury. SEXUAL ABUSE TACTICS include: •Uses force or pressure to get her partner to have sex in a way he does not want •Ridicules or criticizes his performance •Withholds affection or sex to punish him for violating her rules INTIMIDATION TACTICS are any words or actions that the abusive partner uses to scare her partner. For example: destroying property, threatening, stalking or harassing. The primary motive for abuse is to establish and maintain power and control over a partner. The abused partner resists the attempts to control him. In turn, the abusive woman takes additional steps to regain control over her partner. “ ”
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 39 Society’s attitudes can make it harder Our society is beginning to recognize and study the abuse of men by their partners. Society’s inappropriate beliefs and attitudes about men have kept this kind of abuse hidden: •Men are supposed to protect women •Men don’t get pushed around by women •Men are not supposed to hit back even when a woman is hitting them •Men should be able to “handle” their women Because of these beliefs, men who are abused by female partners may be slow to admit it. They may not want to tell anyone. Sometimes police and other professionals may not take the abuse seriously. As a result, a man in an abusive relationship may have some of these feelings: •Afraid to tell anyone •Depressed or humiliated •Afraid he has failed as a lover •Confused because sometimes she acts loving and kind •Believes he deserved it Ten things you can do if you are being abused 1. First, make sure you and any children are physically safe. If you are in immediate danger, call 911. 2. Make a safety plan. If your partner has ever been violent, the violence could happen again at any time. You will need a safety plan so that you can get to a safe place quickly if necessary. 3. Know you are not responsible for the abuse. The abuse is the responsibility of the person who is abusive. 4. Understand that abuse and violence will likely continue without intervention. 5. Tell someone you trust about the abuse. Choose someone who will believe you. Secrecy gives abuse power. Do not give up. 6. Find out more about abuse in relationships. You are not alone. About six per cent of Canadian men report being abused by partners.2 7. Find out what help is available in or near your community. 8. Get professional help from a qualified counsellor. 9. Look after yourself. You are in a difficult situation that takes energy and strength. Make time to do some things that feel good. 10. Spend time with healthy people. Even if they cannot help you directly, being with healthy people will remind you that most people have kind and rewarding relationships. You can too. * Abusers can be male or female. www.familyviolence.alberta.ca. MENABUSED BYWOMEN ...continued Know you are not responsible for the abuse. The abuse is the responsibility of the person who is abusive. “ ”
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 41 Public Health Agency of Canada Agence de la santé publique du Canada The cost of family violence on victims According to 2012 study, "Victim costs ($6.0 billion/year) accounted for the largest proportion (80.7%) of the total economic impact for cost items such as medical attention, lost wages, lost education, the value of stolen/damaged property, and pain and suffering." Family violence has high costs for Canadian society — to the health and justice systems, employers and businesses, social and community services, and to families and people themselves. Although studies on the economic impact of violence can be difficult to compare —since costs are considered and calculated differently—results all indicate that these costs are significant and are not going down. Researchers consider these costs to be under-estimated because it is challenging to account for all the public, private and individual costs of family violence. Despite some fluctuations and variations in methodology, it is clear that the costs associated with family violence remain significant. Here's how reports have estimated the cost related to different aspects of family violence: www.phac-aspc.gc.ca THE ECONOMIC BURDEN OF FAMILY VIOLENCE 2012 7.4 billion/year • $6 billion in victim costs—for pain and suffering, counseling, and legal fees for divorce • $811 million in 3rd-party costs—to families and social services • $545 million in criminal and civil justice costs—for police, courts, and corrections services • $79 million in costs to employers, including productivity and administrative costs 2011 $6.9 billion/year • Study measured costs for women who have left abusive partners • Combined private and public sector costs add up to about $13,000 for each woman 1995 $6.9 $4.23 billion/year (translates to $5.89 billion/year in 2013 dollars) • Study calculated costs to health, criminal justice, social services and education, and labour and employment • Includes intimate partner violence, sexual assault, and child sexual assault
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 45 Of all reported crime in 2011, more than one quarter resulted from family violence. Family members were involved in 77% of all murder-suicides. Almost 70% of all family violence victims were women and girls. Women are victims of intimate partner violence more often and more severely than men • 80% of intimate partner violence is against women • 97% of spousal murder-suicides are against women Family violence is under-reported Experts know that rates of all forms of family violence are underestimated. For example, according to a 2013 Statistics Canada report, only 24% of women who had been abused by their spouses had reported it to the police. There are many reasons why people don't report family violence. One is because of the stigma associated with it. Young children may not report violence because they may have limited contacts outside the family in whom they can safely confide. Intimate partner violence Here are some findings from 2013 Statistics Canada reports on family violence and violence against women: Most victims are women Rates of intimate partner violence were higher for women compared to men in every age group. Compared to men, women who were victims were: • 3- times more likely to report being sexually assaulted, beaten, choked or threatened with a gun or a knife • nearly 2.5 times more likely to report higher rates of injury caused by abuse • 5 times more likely to report multiple experiences of abuse Rates for Aboriginal women are more than twice those for other women • Nearly 60% of Aboriginal women who reported spousal abuse also reported being physically injured as a result of it versus 41% of nonAboriginal women • Almost half of these women reported the most severe forms of violence: being sexually assaulted, beaten, choked, or threatened with a gun or a knife. Young women have the highest rates overall • Women aged 24-34 have the highest rates of intimate partner violence, followed closely by those aged 15-24. • The dating violence rate is 60% higher than the spousal violence rate. • Rates of all types of violence, including partner violence, decrease as people get older. Public Health Agency of Canada Agence de la santé publique du Canada FAMILY VIOLENCE: HOW BIG IS THE PROBLEM IN CANADA?
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Saskatchewan Federation of Police Officers 47 ...continued Same-sex relationships • Women who self-identified as lesbian or bisexual reported significantly higher rates of violence by a partner than heterosexual women (20.8% vs. 6.1%) Child abuse and neglect A recent report showed that in 2012: • More than a quarter (26%) of adult Canadians reported that they had experienced physical abuse in childhood; 10% reported childhood sexual abuse; 8% reported childhood exposure to intimate partner violence. A 2013 Statistics Canada report showed that: • girls were 4 times more likely than boys to be victims of child sexual abuse by a family member • of infants killed by a family member, those under 1 year were most at risk • Shaken Baby Syndrome/Abusive Head Trauma accounted for nearly 1 in 3 homicides against children less than 1 year of age. • as children grow older, the non-lethal rates of violence increase Rates of child abuse by type of abuse According to data from child welfare agencies in Canada in 2008, children were exposed to the following types of abuse: • Exposure to intimate partner violence (34%) • Neglect (34%) • Physical abuse (20%) • Emotional abuse (9%) • Sexual abuse (3%) PHAC (2010) Elder abuse & neglect According to a 2013 Statistics Canada report: • Nearly 60% of incidents of elder abuse were physical assaults against older adults, and 26% involved threats. • The highest rates of elder abuse by a family member reported to police are for those aged 65-74. • Senior women are more likely to be killed by a family member than senior men. Who is most likely to abuse older adults? • family members (34%) • strangers (27%) • acquaintances (19%) Grown children are the most common perpetrators of abuse and/or neglect of elderly relativesespecially in cases of homicide. Statistics Canada, 2013b FAMILY VIOLENCE: HOW BIG IS THE PROBLEM IN CANADA? More than a quarter (26%) of adult Canadians reported that they had experienced physical abuse in childhood; 10% reported childhood sexual abuse; 8% reported childhood exposure to intimate partner violence. “ ”
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